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day 75.

Today self-care looked like learning new skills and opening myself up to exciting possibilities in terms of kink and sex. I haven’t figured out how much of this stuff I really want to talk about on this blog, but this part of myself and this exploration are becoming bigger parts of my self-care, so I feel like a mention now and again is important. Maybe eventually I’ll do some more in depth writing around it all, but for now, this is good enough.

And a midnight birthday dance party for one Wyatt Riot (even if that technically makes it day 76/March 16th), in which he proceeded to smash cheesecake into my face with britney spears playing in the background. I love my friends. So much.

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day 63 and day 64.

Act of self-love: Love and celebrate your friends

Another Epic Weekend.

I spent so much time this weekend loving in some of the best ways I know how.

Two femme friends had birthdays on Sunday, and I baked up a storm all weekend in their honor. Cooking and baking are so important to me, and if I make food for you, it is truly because you mean the world to me. Food is one of the greatest ways I know how to nurture those I care about; it fills me up to no end.

For Jenny, on her 30th birthday: Triple Citrus Cupcakes


(recipe from the Martha Stewart cupcake cookbook)

For Devra, one of my favorite femme Jews: Hamantaschen!


(dough recipe from Smitten Kitchen, this is my first time making them, I think they’ll be even better with some slight modifications next time)

I made strawberry, apricot, and my personal fave poppyseed. They look like jewels.

The weekend was otherwise filled with so much good food, bouncing on trampolines, laughter, joy. I feel like my life is bursting at the seams right now in all the best ways possible.

I’m loving it.

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